Thanks for writing, and thanks for starting the Circle. I wish I still had some old binders to donate. I’d like to help out in some way. I’d like to donate a brand new binder to a guy, in Original Plumbing’s name. If you find out the size of a guy who really needs it, I’ll just order it online and have it shipped to you… What do you think?
This is our first binder donation, so give it up for Original Plumbing, yeah? The binder is going to Chase Beck since he was the very first accepted applicant. He goes through various, painful methods to bind each day, and those days will soon be over. Go ahead and congratulate him.
how do you bind? I'm having trouble getting the look I'm comfortable with because my breasts are large for my body (C cup). Layering sports bras isn't cutting it right now...any suggestions?
To start off I’d suggest using an Ace bandage (you’ll probably find one in your medicine cabinet). I have a C cup as well so i know how you feel. When i started i had to use two Ace bandages because one wasn’t cutting it for me (with a sports bra on top). I don’t recommend that though, It was ridiculously hard to breath in and you have to adjust yourself many times through out the day. Also if you’d have the money I’d say buy a binder from underworks or another place, I don’t recommend T-Kingdom. I currently use both a Binder and a sports bra as well as one ace bandage which is working pretty well… I’m trying now to save for a better binder that ill be able to wear on it’s own.
I didn’t mop up Kayla’s beer covered apartment floor with my favorite black and white stripped long sleeve shirt on new years eve… And i wish that i hadn’t left it sitting in the trunk of my car since then… Cause i kind of want to wear it now; Fuck
Guide on how to keep a girl 1. When she asks how she looks, shrug and say “could be better.” This will keep her on her toes, and girls love that.
2. Never hold her hand. This can be interpreted as a sign of weakness. If she grabs your hand, squeeze hers really hard until she cries (this will impress her by showing her what a strong man you are).
3. Once a month, sneak up on her from behind and knock her over. Girls are like dogs; they love to be roughed up.
4. Call her in the middle of the night to ask if she’s sleeping. If she is, say “you better be.” Repeat this 4 or 5 times until morning. This will show her you care.
5. When she is upset about something, suggest to her that it might be her fault. This will pave the way for her own personal improvement, and every girl needs some improvement.
6. Recognize the small things, as they usually mean the most. Then when she’s sleeping, steal all her small things and break them, because jewelry is for pussies and Asian ladies.
7. If you’re talking to another girl, make sure she’s looking. When she is, stare into her eyes, mouth the words “F UCK you” and grab the other girl’s ass. Girls love competition.
8. Tell her you’re taking her out to dinner. Drive for miles so she thinks it’s going to be really special. Then take her to a burning tire yard. When she starts to get upset, tell her you were just kidding and now you’re really going to take her to dinner. Then drive her home. When she starts crying and asks why you would do something like that, lean over and whisper very quietly into her ear “…because I can.”
9. Introduce her to your friends as “some chick.” Women love those special nicknames.
10. Play with her hair. Play with it HARD.
11. Warm her up when she’s cold…and not by giving her your jacket, because then you might get cold. Rather, look her in the eye and say “if you don’t stop bitching about the cold right now, you’re going to be bitching about a black eye.” The best way to get warm is with fear.
12. Take her to a party. When you get there, she’ll have to go to the bathroom (they always do). Leave immediately. Come back right when the party is dying and yell at her the whole way home for ditching you all night.
13. Make her laugh. A good way to do this is if she has a small pet. Kick the pet. I always find stuff like that funny…why shouldn’t girls?
14. Let her fall asleep in your arms. When she’s fast asleep, wait 10 minutes, then jump up and scream in her ear. Repeat until she goes home and you can use your arms for more important things… (like basketball).
15. Spit often. I hear girls like guys that spit.
16. If you care about her, never ever tell her. This will only give her self-confidence, then you can never turn her into the object she deep down desires to be.
17. Every time you’re in her house, steal one of her shoes, earrings or anything else that comes in pairs. Only take one of the pair. This way, she’ll go crazy.
18. Take her out to dinner. Right when she’s about to order, interrupt and say “no, she’s not hungry.” Make her watch you eat. Girls love a guy that speaks for her.
19. Look her in the eyes and smile. Then punch her in the face. Girls love a spontaneous guy.
20. Give her one of your t-shirts, and make sure it has your smell on it (but not a sexy cologne smell…a bad smell. You know what I’m talking about).
21. When it’s raining, keep asking her if she’s crying. She’ll say “no, it’s just the rain.” Ten minutes later, turn to her and just scream at her to stop crying. Girls like a tough man.
22. Titty twisters and plenty of them.
23. If you’re listening to music, and she asks to hear it, tell her no. This way she’ll think you’re mysterious.
24. Remember her birthday, but don’t get her anything. Teach her that material objects arent important. The only thing that’s important is that she keeps you happy, and your happiness is the greatest present she can ever get.
25. When she gives you a present on your birthday, Christmas or just whenever, take it and tell her you love it. Then, next time you know she’s coming over on a trash day, leave the trash can open and have the present visibly sticking out of the can. Girls actually don’t like this one that much, but I think it’s funny.
26. If she’s mad at you for not calling her when you say you will, promise her that you will call her at a certain time of the day. This will make sure that she waits by the phone. Tell her when you call that you’re going to tell her a special surprise. Now she’ll be really excited. Don’t call.
THIS IS BULL. I WOULD BE SO PISSED IF ANY GUY DID THIS.
omg this made me laugh so hard
I follow these rules very strictly… this is why my Girlfriend loves me :}
hey, chase. just wanted to say I love your blog. I was also wondering if you could give me your email address or something so I could contact you somewhere else since there are no private messages over here. I've been following you for some time now and it just came to my mind that I'd like to talk to you,don't mean to sound creepy though.
we’ll not really until i was 17, but if i look back now i could have totally realized it sooner if i were exposed to anyone like myself. When i was 8 i cried for weeks because i wasn’t one of the boys, i was devastated haha
Gaga said Telephone was supposed to be a commentary on consumer culture and American culture and was an opportunity to use homosexual themes in a commercial environment.
I think that’s absolutely brilliant, what better way to show the masses that they can not hide from homosexuality, than to bring it right into there mainstream environment. Also notice it wasn’t done in a disrespectful way (i.e Katy perry’s I kissed a girl) The video wasn’t showing homosexuality as something to shrug off hoping “your boyfriend don’t mind it”
“It is my personal belief that this video is not getting so much attention for those [violent] themes because I’ve used those themes in my videos before, haven’t I? It’s because it’s with Beyonce and it’s because there are so many homosexual themes, and transgendered women in the video. Some people believe that being gay is a choice, and it’s not a choice. we are born this way. It has one foot in the art community and one foot in the commercial world.”
Has your gf been supportive of your transition?
Dont you ever worry that she will leave becuz of it? I only ask cuz I'm a MTF and that's one of my biggest fears.
She is super supportive of my transition.. But I still worry some times that she might leave me when I’m post op, or even when i start T. But she tells me that she loves me, and I’m crazy about her so I’m trying not to think that it might happen; I already have enough on my mind